Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Synastry (relationship) Charting

I have been asked many, many times just how one goes about CREATING a 'Synastry Chart' and then, of course, HOW TO USE it.
 
In 'Synastry', you want to study the 'Aspects' between the Natal Charts of the two individuals in question; for it is the 'Aspects' that will tell-the-tale as to how well-suited, or not, two people are for each other.
This kind of Charting saves both time and heartache because you can see fairly quickly just who is, (and who isn't), worth pursuing-- BEFORE getting in too deep. And, of course, you can use 'Synastry' for any kind of relationship, not just romantic ones; such as one's parents, siblings, friends, teachers, co-workers, bosses, doctors/dentists... anytime you are having to place your trust in someone.
If you find it impossible to obtain the kind of information required to do a proper 'Synastry Chart', but really need to know if a certain person, or pet, (or anything really), is conducive to your well-being, then use a Pendulum to make this determination. (see my blog on Pendulums)
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 Now then, to get started-- you first have to create a Natal Chart for each person. As most people are not Astrologers, (thus don't own Astrology Software), this can be done for free online; and the best Charts you can get for free online come from Astro.com... http://www.astro.com
 You will have to Register, then enter all the Birth Information to get the Chart:
1. Date of Birth-- day, month, year;
2. Time of Birth-- with am or pm; and,
3. Location of Birth-- city, state, country
Again, all this is free, and, you can create and save up to 100 Charts on their site.
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(1) So, now that all this is done, click on your name on the 'Stored Astro Data' page where you just created the Charts. You will be taken to a page of various  Charts you can select.
(All the various Charts that you can select from  are free, and fun, but check them out later! They are 'canned reports', and no 'canned report' can tell you what you really need to know. Why? Because a 'canned report' is computer-generated. And no computer can ever take the place of a real, live Astrologer... who sees so very much more in YOUR Chart than a computer ever could. This is precisely why 'canned reports' are free, whilst a real Astrologer charges a couple hundred dollars to read a Chart)
(2) As you are here to learn how to do this for yourself, scroll all the way down until you see on the bottom, right-hand side of the page, 'Extended Chart Selection'. Click on it.
 As I cannot post the whole page here, I will show it to you in sections. This first section, at the top of the page, shows Your Name. Underneath that is another box that shows the Partner's Name. Click on that second box to choose the partner you want to create a Synastry Chart with.
 
 
 (3) Next, scroll down to where you see 'Natal Chart Wheel' in the box. Click on that box and a menu will come up; choose 'Synastry Chart (2)'. It's the second choice from the top, just under 'Natal Chart Wheel'.
 
 
 
 
 
(4) Next, scroll down to where it says, 'Additional Objects'. In the left-hand box, choose 'Part of Fortune'. On the right-hand side, choose 'show Descending Node' and 'aspect lines to all'.
 

 
(5) Lastly, scroll down and click on the 'BLUE BOX' that says, 'click here to show the chart'. The Synastry Chart  will now come-up on the page. Again, I have to break the page down into sections.
 
 
 
The very top of the page will show the Names of the people involved. You will also see a line that says, 'Additional tables (PDF)'---> This is what you're truly after.
 
 
You will also see the 1st Person's Name and Birth Information in a box underneath. And, under that, you will see the 2nd Person's Name, Birth Information, and the phrase, 'Comparison with'.
 
(6) Under all this is the actual 'Wheel'. And, because you chose 'aspect lines to all', you will be able to see, at-a-glance, not only the 1st Person's Planets in the 'Inner Ring', and the 2nd Person's Planets in the 'Outer Ring', but the Aspects to each other, the Signs everything is in, and the Houses involved too.
 
 
 (7) Now then, while all this is fascinating and worth studying, let's get to the REAL TREASURE. Scroll back to where it says, 'Additional tables (PDF)', and click on that.
 
 
A new window, (in the PDF format), will appear that has THREE THINGS on it. The info on the 1st Person; the info on the 2nd Person; and, finally, the 'POT OF GOLD'  that we jumped thru all these hoops to get to: the 'Aspects between both' Table.
 
 
 
 
(8) It is this 'Aspects between both' Table, (shown below), that you will use to quickly analyze how another will affect you, and how you will affect them. Which, of course, tells you whether you have a real shot at a happy and lasting relationship... or haven't a hope in hell of making it.
 
(9) Last, but certainly not least,  get the book, 'Love Formulas- 2', by Nance McCullough. She shows how to easily rate the 'Good-to-Bad Aspect Ratios' from the 'Aspects between both' Table you just created. Here is a blurb about the book from Dave at  AstroAmerica.
You can either purchase this book from Dave, at AstroAmerica, or from Amazon. (I've seen prices range anywhere from $7 to $15-bucks)

 
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Armed with your 'Aspects between both' Table, and this book, you will find yourself with the ability to choose wisely those people with whom you should have contact, and those you should stay away from... especially when it comes to being struck by 'Cupid's Arrow'. No longer will you have only your feelings to rely on, (which are all too real; but, have given rise to every heartbreak song on the planet... songs like, 'You Give Love A Bad Name' by Bon Jovi).
Well, no more. Now you've got the Astrologer's waythe balance of feeling and reason. Your very real, and intense, 'feelings' for someone causes your 'reasonable mind' to cast the 'Synastry Chart'. And the 'Synastry Chart'  informs your hopeful feelings, and confirms to your reasonable mind with surety, with confidence, whether such a relationship can be a happily lasting one, or whether a tragic heartbreak is waiting in the wings.
Astrology empowers us; for it gives us the ability to choose wisely.
No longer are we victims of love, but true agents of love.
Good luck, everyone!

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p.s. Here are some additional books on Synastry. However, 'Love Formulas- 2' (above) is absolutely essential.

'Skymates- Love, Sex & Evolutionary Astrology' by Jodie & Steven Forrest: (scroll down about 1/3 of the page)
http://www.astroamerica.com/relate.html#…

'Skymates II: The Composite Chart' by Jodie & Steven Forrest:

http://www.astroamerica.com/relate.html#…

'Prediction Techniques Regarding Romance' by Ana Ruiz:

http://www.astroamerica.com/relate4.html…

'Astrology & Sex' by Vivian Robson:

http://www.astroamerica.com/relate.html#…

'Sex & the Outer Planets' by Ba
rbara Watters: (scroll down about 3/4 of the page)
http://www.astroamerica.com/essays3.html#sex & the outer planets